Yup it is 20 years since I graduated high school. I swear the 10 year reunion that I skipped feels like it was just 2 or 3 years ago! I strongly considered going but after following the Fakebook group for almost a year I know skipping it was the right decision. Only a few of my former friends attended and looking back they were not good friends. I literally had nothing better to do that day but it was very empowering to stay home instead - because my life is so much bigger than K thru 12 and clearly anyone who I admired agreed.