Friday, March 10, 2017

Pagan Weddings

A priest I knew years ago referred to non-Catholic weddings as "pagan weddings".  I remember the phrase caught my attention and I found his perspective on the matter quite refreshing.  When I was younger I attended wedding ceremonies that were performed outside the Church.  I also attended my uncle's wedding ceremony even though he had given up his Catholic faith for the relationship.  Going to "weddings" is really the easy part - it's not going that can be very difficult.

The first wedding I intentionally skipped was my closest aunt's.  She was protestant when she married my uncle but after they divorced we were still very close.  She went on to convert to Catholicism which made it difficult when she decided to marry again, but outside of the Church.  Since the ceremony was to be at the reception hall I did not go or send a gift.  She didn't question me why and so I didn't tell her.

Next was a close friend who was raised Catholic but had joined a fundamentalist protestant religion.  This was very painful because he had actually been in my wedding a few years earlier.  His bride-to-be was a non-religious former Catholic who desired her homosexual friend to be in the wedding too of course.  He knew I wasn't going to be comfortable with the wedding but he was stunned I did not even want to attend.  I offered to be there for him at the reception but it was rebuked.  The friendship ended.

Now my brother-in-law who is not Catholic wants to marry a divorced fallen-away Catholic in an outdoor wedding/reception ceremony and expects not only his sister to attend but her husband and children - oblivious to the moral conflicts that exist.  For me if it's not a Catholic wedding it's a pagan wedding ceremony.  Catholic teaching is very clear about what constitutes a valid wedding for baptized Catholics.  Perhaps if more people understood Catholic teaching on marriage?  Explaining it hasn't helped yet.

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Too Rigid For Television?

Within the past 10 years or so television has declined to a state of almost complete immorality.  A large percentage of content is now pushing the homosexual agenda including kid shows.  The problem is not just on cable, the same garbage is found on broadcast networks.  News reports, sports commentary, even the commercials are full of the same filth.  

In my household we have 2 televisions connected to a rooftop antenna and Nintento Wii game systems that provide easy access to Netflix and other streaming media.  The rooftop antenna captures about 30 channels of HD content from the local broadcast networks.  Children are not allowed to turn a TV on without parental consent and continuous supervision.

Most of the time the TVs are off in the house but they are on for video games, streaming content, and occasionally broadcast network news or other programming.  While this is not a perfect solution it is one that works for my family given the pervasive immoral content.  In this way I am able to teach my children about the content which they will surely be exposed to elsewhere. 

So I am not "too rigid for television" but I do believe it can be dangerous.  Sadly it is no more dangerous than what kids might experience in public.  For those who have decided to eliminate television I understand, but I do not agree with the sagacity of keeping their children away from families that allow TVs.  I knew kids who grew up without a TV in their home and it did not prevent them from spiritual harm as adults.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Psuedo Disciples of Vatican 2

Turn on your local televised Sunday Mass if you are looking for the fulfillment of all that Vatican 2 set out to achieve, the desolation of ecumenism.  Substituting glory due to God with the glorification of community, disciples of Vatican 2 practice their craft under the guise of "active participation".

Cameras pan over pews populated mostly by elderly women and mothers all apparently suffering from infertility.  Vein attempts are made to bring the few children present to a special "Children's Liturgy".  Singing takes center stage - literally.  No tabernacle but a legion of "Eucharistic Ministers".  Communion in the hand, where bowing to the back of the next person in line is standard.

The diabolical disorientation of Versus Populum worship is a hallmark belief by the disciples of Vatican 2 and one of it's more divisive aspects.  But like all the hard won protestant reforms implemented after the council, there will be no "turning back the clock".  The Vatican 2 euthanasia program is here to stay, and the practitioners will not be denied their subjective preference.

Monday, January 23, 2017

Novus Ordoland

It's a curious thing Novus Ordoland.  On one hand there is the new Mass which most Catholics will agree is lacking.  On the other hand there is the parish school, fellowship groups, and related events that serve the mainstream modern Catholic Church.

I will not - I cannot subjugate my faith or even the possibility that any of my children will grow up believing that the Novus Ordo with all it's social cliques, stamped with diocesan approval, in any way will inoculate against the acute condition of this world in decline.  When the cult of personality plays false I will not be undecided. 

Monday, January 16, 2017

Why It Doesn't Feel Like Family

For the second time in so many years my parish is enduring unusual circumstances with their clergy.  Hopefully this is not the beginning of a pattern.  Instead of explanations we are again presented with a kind of clerical wall of silence.  Everybody knows something is wrong but few want to talk about it openly, most notably the clergy.  A Parish is supposed to feel like a family, but this does not.

Thursday, January 12, 2017

One Mass Away From SSPX

I believe we are all one Mass away from being SSPX.  We are the Catholics who love our faith and the Traditional Latin Mass.  Most of us have never been to an SSPX chapel or even met a fellow "SSPX Catholic".  But these priests are Catholic and the laity who attend their Masses are in communion with the Catholic Church.   A generation has been thoroughly propagandized to believe otherwise.  Ask yourself what you would do if the diocesan approved TLM was ended in your area?  I bet you know where the closest SSPX chapel is don't you?  A sobering fact.

Saturday, January 7, 2017

Mowing Down Abortion Clinic Protesters

Today I read a tweet by a young women who struggled with her urge to "RAM HER CAR INTO PPL WHO PROTEST OUTSIDE OF PLANNED PARENTHOOD".   In the world of social media and rampant mental instability such comments only add to the danger those few people who may someday go to pray outside an abortion mill.  I've prayed outside a local abortion facility during a 40 Days For Life campaign.  I had no idea what to expect and I don't know if I will ever do it again.

I brought my then 12 yr old daughter with me, she didn't want to go.  What she didn't know is that I did not want to go without her - I did not want to go alone.  She went once before with my wife during the day but we were going at night.  Our city has only 1 abortion clinic located on a busy central roadway.  The neighborhood is poor and full of minorities and college aged people.  We had to park 2 blocks away due to the lack of parking on the side streets.

On the main road there is nothing to distinguish the small commercial building as an abortion mill.  I only knew it was because I had the address - which I'm sure is how those seeking an abortion find it.  The entrance was in the back which is also where the parking lot was.  Out front there was nothing but a camera, a small patch of parkway grass, and the busy street.  We stood in the alleyway that ran between the neighboring building.

In the dark I prayed the Rosary with my daughter, a man with 3 of his young children, and young women who appeared to be in her early 20's.  We prayed for 1 hour and during that time probably 10 people walked by on the sidewalk - all minding their own business as were we.  We had prayed the Holy Rosary in the first 15 minutes aloud, but now we were all praying silently, hoping that no violence would occur inside OR out.

Halfway through our time someone drove by with a window down shouting, "Why do you have to be so racist!!??"  It was a younger white women who drove by a second time to shout some other vulgar and disgraceful obscenities in front of young children.  Apparently this person believed that only persons of color utilized this facility.  Obviously she knew what the building was for despite it's unremarkable appearance. 

When our hour was over we escorted the girl in her early 20's back to her car since it was on our way.  She was visibly nervous and so were we, since we did not know if anyone was waiting for us on our 2-block walk back our car.  Thankfully the night ended without any further incident.  I'm not even sure if the abortion facility was open, there was no way to see inside nor was there any view of the parking lot entrance.  Anyone seeking an abortion here has no contact with those praying out front at the busy street.

I am someone who wants to experience things firsthand so I know what all the controversy is about.  Protesting out front of the local abortion mill was not on my bucket list.  I did it because someone very close to me has had an abortion at this very facility.  I know intimate details about what takes place on the other side of the mirrored glass windows.  I know what this person was thinking when they made the appointment.  I know what they thought when they approached the doors.  I know that people where there praying then and she knew it.  I know that she did not want to have the abortion - that she felt she had no choice.

To know what I know.  To know what takes place both inside and outside.  To know how horrible the circumstances are for those who find themselves entering the back parking lot entrance to this destination for those who are provided no choice in their worlds!  No choice.  No choice?  So much for a women's right to choose!  I feared for the women who entered this facility and their unborn children - but I feared just as much for the people praying outside.  Never did I feel so close to the devil's domain.  I have been to some evil places but here outside the abortion mill, I feared not the people inside, but those who might desire to commit great bodily harm to those praying outside.

Be careful before you judge.  The people outside abortion clinics are most likely not racists, or some heartless protester.  Most likely they are people who know abortion firsthand and all the ramifications that come from it.  Most likely they are praying for the mother who finds herself at the doors of these facilities whatever their situation.  Let them pray in silence.  Do not fan the flames of hatred and evil by tweeting about running them over with your car!  You will end up in jail for murder! Now isn't that ironic?